The Forgotten Miracle Of Self-Healing Your Broken Heart
Acceptance
The divine nature in all of us longs for love and affection, driving us to cling and attach to those that cater to our inner desires. But when it is time to separate, usually, one of us is not ready to be set free. While one escapes, the other is left with a broken heart. But a broken heart isn’t always a bad thing. It can be the passage to self-discovery and spiritual connectedness.
My Love Tale
I was so gullible. My ex used to promise me things that she couldn’t deliver. I wanted to believe her so badly but deep down I knew better. When we broke up, she told me that she would be back in five years — new and improved! For some reason, her words planted in my head and I waited for her to re-enter my life as she promised. Every time that I saw something that reminded me of her, I automatically thought the Universe was validating that she was coming back. She didn’t…so, I finally had to come to terms with my obsession to be with her and let the fantasy of who I wanted her to be, fade away.
In the back of my mind, I knew this day would come when I would have to learn how to live unattached. After all the running around to distract myself, I became exhausted and it forced me to face my fear and finally acknowledge that grieving my ex was going to be a process I was not going to complete in just a few weeks. Therefore, I accepted my heartache and let the tears flow every time I thought of her (research says crying is the best way to cleanse the soul). I didn’t want another band-aid, a new relationship, or medication to cover up the pain. Like a big girl, I admitted, it was time for me to get to the bottom of my depression. In turn, I began to do all of the healing practices that I mentioned in the previous articles to feel better. Some days the methods worked while on others I felt horrible. Eventually, I replaced the gorge in my heart with God’s love and found ways to inspire others to do the same.
STAGE 7: ACCEPTANCE (After the break-up you may experience the following)
HEAL’N PRACTICES (Ways to develop your inner being)
Remember For Your Heal’n
Only a select few of us meet early and stay together until the end. The rest of us go through a series of gains and losses. When you learn to accept that relationships are simply different roads of teachings on your journey, you will begin to understand that depression is holding on and sadness is letting go.
Once you find yourself, you will develop a different mindset and understand why your heart had to be broken wide open into little pieces and perfectly put back together by God. Through that process, you learn to, first, love yourself and then others. And the way to love others is to be kind and ‘gift-away’ your story to another and lead them to the gateway of self-heal’n.
